Receive the Gift of Limits

Today, a fourth quality: the spiritually/emotionally healthy person RECEIVES THE GIFT OF LIMITS. He or she knows when to say "no" both to bad things…and even to good things. She understands some basic truths about who she is and about how the world is and about what it means to be redeemed and what that doesn't mean. Spiritually and emotionally healthy people have had those truths seep into their motives and aren't easily pressed into a mold of someone else's expectations or someone else's goals or convictions. He's comfortable in his own skin and secure in his identity and calling under God.